Parents should go on holiday because you deserve a break

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It is good to take a break - a getaway - once a while for all parents who are 'burnt-out' taking care of kids or work.

It is not necessary to go on holiday with your spouse, but with your close friends because all of you deserve a break.

There are a lot of pressure looking after the kids, work and family. Some times, you have no idea why would you want to flare up because the inner self just want to burst out for no reason. When that happens, that is the time to go on for a holiday trip.

Everyone have to learn to let go especially the work and kids.

Wifey enjoyed her Korea holiday trip with her friends and it lighten up her mood ever since she came back.

Although the holiday is all about walking non stop and feeling tired, but the feeling of - do not need to look after your spouse and kids, are the most comfortable moment.

You might not get used to it for just the first few minute, but soon, you are just like a bird flying happily outside of the cage.


The trust is needed

Entrust your spouse or family to take care of the kids because they know what to do.

Just like how hubby managed to take care of the kids for 4 days while wifey is away in Korea trip and in order not to spoil her mood, he rather keep quiet about Clar falling sick and staying at home resting.

Hubby love Korean food a lot and love to watch "3 Meals A Day" TV show, so he attempt to try cooking pasta and burgers for the kids to eat on different days. - And he made it! Proud moment




An effort to think

While wifey is away for holiday trip, Cait remembered to countdown the days till wifey is back, and she missed her mom a lot.

But they soon forget about the 'missing her' part when the TV is turned on (practical indeed)

Hubby told wifey that he is alright even she go for 1 more week of holiday because there is no hassle taking care of the kids after all. The 'me' time is only when the kids are asleep, that is when hubby will finish up his work as soon as possible.

Nothing is impossible and everything is doable if you put in effort to try.


No matter what, a break is needed

Wifey took a huge step by getting out of the house and go on for a holiday without any worries, while hubby had faith taking care of the kids - although partly with parent's help too.

Go on for a short trip if you are feeling burnt out and wanted a good rest from the family. Let go of everything and learn to relax.

If you are having dilemma whether you should go, write down a list what your spouse should do and give trust to them. Plan everything first is a must. Be responsible even when you are going for a short trip.

When anyone of you is back, the feeling is totally awesome.

Have a thought on that.

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