The tough love
Taking the cane, shove at the kids as warning is not working anymore. They know, by heart, that parents will not cane them.
This time, Cait and Clar were wrong when they tested hubby's patience.
The first stroke down is a pre warning, it will followed by the 2nd time which is slightly harder than before.
It is not easy for them to forget that moment when they realised the pain is not a joke, neither they knew that hubby is not acting at all.
He know what to do when come to disciplinary this time.
When the kids are getting out of control, such action is unavoidable.
Screaming, shouting and slamming here and there will only result the kids to follow them. Hence, hubby ensured everyone must watch what they say and the cause of action; this also include the grandparents too.
Hubby glad that Cait had progressed a lot better than before on her learning capabilities. Almost daily, hubby will spend 30min to 45min on her for Mandarin, English and Math. Since wifey is pretty busy with work, it is great that hubby came into help! Of course, there are times whereby hubby need help with the teaching too.
It is not easy to teach them at all. Can't imagine for kids who are home schooling! The energy, effort and material! Kudos.
Till date, Cait is a lot better than before. She still remember the pain from the cane, which she confessed to wifey.
Of course, hubby do not anyhow cane the kids. He know how to guide them properly better than before!
The tough love is not easy, but it is achievable.
This time, Cait and Clar were wrong when they tested hubby's patience.
The first stroke down is a pre warning, it will followed by the 2nd time which is slightly harder than before.
It is not easy for them to forget that moment when they realised the pain is not a joke, neither they knew that hubby is not acting at all.
He know what to do when come to disciplinary this time.
When the kids are getting out of control, such action is unavoidable.
Screaming, shouting and slamming here and there will only result the kids to follow them. Hence, hubby ensured everyone must watch what they say and the cause of action; this also include the grandparents too.
Hubby glad that Cait had progressed a lot better than before on her learning capabilities. Almost daily, hubby will spend 30min to 45min on her for Mandarin, English and Math. Since wifey is pretty busy with work, it is great that hubby came into help! Of course, there are times whereby hubby need help with the teaching too.
It is not easy to teach them at all. Can't imagine for kids who are home schooling! The energy, effort and material! Kudos.
Till date, Cait is a lot better than before. She still remember the pain from the cane, which she confessed to wifey.
Of course, hubby do not anyhow cane the kids. He know how to guide them properly better than before!
The tough love is not easy, but it is achievable.
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