Taking and giving the rights

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Today, hubby had to reprimand Cait by not giving her the chance to skate (scooter) to her school. Due to her naughtiness, she had been forbidded to watch her anime in car while on the way to school as well. This also goes out to Clar because she was the starter of the whole event.

By the time Cait was in school after the usual health check up, she mumbling non stop so that hubby will be able to pick up her unhappiness.

Time was 0830hrs, the girls were punctual and they are supposed to be in school by then.

Cait said:" See... come so early also use. I don't even have a chance to skate my scooter to the school!"

Hubby know that Cait is a very sensible, but yet can be very sensitive; he agreed to let her go to playground after school only if she behave well in school.



Just as promised, hubby did brought the two girls enjoyed their run and playfulness in the playground.

This is about give and take. Knowing they are in wrong, hubby will tend to take away their rights. He will give them back by end of the day, as what he had already agreed on. He make sure the girls know why they were punished in the first place.

It is not about beating, shouting and scolding. To hubby, they will only learn when the rights were taken away.


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