Clar insecure; Cait disciplinary
Every night Clar tuck in soundly and she is able to sleep on her own through the whole night, without feeling any fear.
Recently, it seem that Clar is getting more and more insecure. She will make sure that any of her body part must be connected to wifey. E.g. her feet or palm must be touching her mom, despite in the awkward position.
1-2 weeks back, she preferred to sleep facing down on wifey chest, so that she feel the security around her. She will start to cry if been put down on bed, even though it is just beside. Having cuddling is no use as well.
Just like last night, she will wake up every hour because she did not feel secure.
One day, when hubby entered the room while talking to Clar, who is lying on the bed looking at the ceiling, she startled and trembled for a while until getting rest assured of it.
The second time is when Clar was beside hubby; he was playing his iphone and Clar was on her own until wifey came in and talk to him, and she got startled again.
It show that Clar is getting a bit timid, and they need to do something about it.
As for Cait, she was feeling lethargic due to lack of nap time. She kept on whining and crying, but both wifey and hubby do not want to give in to her. After reading the article on magazine regarding the disciplinary on kid, hubby felt that he must be 10 times stern on Cait.
She is getting out of hand, and by teaching her again will take times. It is better than nothing, rather then carry on the mistake she made.
Cait cannot have her way now, and grandma is not allowed to do anything when disciplinary mode is on. This is to prevent Cait from getting help, and understand why she is been treated like this.
Also, Clar is coughing, having flu and phlegm in throat. Up till now, she still diarrhea after consuming typical milk powder. They still continue to feed her with soya, but mixture of milk powder as well.
Let's hope both girls will get better and better.
Recently, it seem that Clar is getting more and more insecure. She will make sure that any of her body part must be connected to wifey. E.g. her feet or palm must be touching her mom, despite in the awkward position.
1-2 weeks back, she preferred to sleep facing down on wifey chest, so that she feel the security around her. She will start to cry if been put down on bed, even though it is just beside. Having cuddling is no use as well.
Just like last night, she will wake up every hour because she did not feel secure.
One day, when hubby entered the room while talking to Clar, who is lying on the bed looking at the ceiling, she startled and trembled for a while until getting rest assured of it.
The second time is when Clar was beside hubby; he was playing his iphone and Clar was on her own until wifey came in and talk to him, and she got startled again.
It show that Clar is getting a bit timid, and they need to do something about it.
As for Cait, she was feeling lethargic due to lack of nap time. She kept on whining and crying, but both wifey and hubby do not want to give in to her. After reading the article on magazine regarding the disciplinary on kid, hubby felt that he must be 10 times stern on Cait.
She is getting out of hand, and by teaching her again will take times. It is better than nothing, rather then carry on the mistake she made.
Cait cannot have her way now, and grandma is not allowed to do anything when disciplinary mode is on. This is to prevent Cait from getting help, and understand why she is been treated like this.
Also, Clar is coughing, having flu and phlegm in throat. Up till now, she still diarrhea after consuming typical milk powder. They still continue to feed her with soya, but mixture of milk powder as well.
Let's hope both girls will get better and better.
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