We are The Ongies

Image: Copyblogger  The inactive of this blog does not means that The Ongies is not posting anymore. It is because there are a lot of problem arise recently. So hubby decided to take a leave from the blogging here. Hubby recently decided to get into trading, hence setting up his own blog and share his journey; be it win or loss, he hope to have some readers who just started up and learn the mistake he gone through. Wifey had been busy preparing essential oil for the kids and adult when they fall sick. This is to prevent them from taking so many medications as they are made from chemical. Hubby would like to share the knowledge of the oils he had been using, which he find it is very useful. Image source:  harvestnewbeginning On the other hand for Cait, she had gone through the eye check up in school and the result is acceptable! Both eyes are 6/7.5, which is acceptable stage. It is important not to let her watch too much or TV, especially when it is night tim...

The Ongies would like to share with you! Have your windscreen cracked and wanted to repair it? You can find Dr Glass for help! It was unfortunate that hubby's windscreen had double impact by a huge stone while he is traveling below the SLE bridge from BKE. The crack was pretty big when he saw it. Hubby would like to save a lot of time and money - insurance claim, going to car workshop to get the windscreen done and also the solar film. Furthermore, the car left one year only. He decided to ask around for help until someone recommended him Dr Glass . You may go to Dr Glass site and take a look of his work. He is very patience and friendly too. All you need to do is to add him as friend in Line or Whatsapps first, then send him the image for him to rectify before he can commit.  The only thing you need to do is to park the car under shelter so that he is able to work carefully. He will first examine the crack, explained to hubby when he was preparing his gadget to...

Good sale service is very important when the family are shopping in the store. Sales executives personnel understand that children may be noisy and might attempt to mess up the place. Therefore, it is appropriate for the personnel to approach the customer in the courtesy way by hinting them that someone should look after the children before anything may happen. All parents will know that by heart. Apparently, this does not happen to The Ongies at all. The girls were well behaved in the yellow and blue theme electronic store at Lot One. All they did was climbed up to the lazy chair by using their knee power. They know their own limit by not allowing their shoes to step on the chair. When the salesman saw the girls were on the chair, he did not even attempt to approach The Ongies for assistance when they were looking at the dining table. Instead, he walked past them with his eyes looking ahead with no eye contact at all, mumbling to them while he kept on walking without stopping....

In order to look nice and stay pretty, Clar had been pestering wifey that she wanted an earring like her sister, Cait. On contrary, Cait have her first earring when she is only a few months old, and Clar have it when she is 3. She wasn't the type that can sit still and she love to grab anything when she was a baby, hence the thought of not giving her the earring in the first place. She know the consequences that piercing is painful, but she still want to go ahead. Since she know what she wants, The Ongies decided to bring her to grandmother's friend's goldsmith shop to do it. She was given a choice of many earrings to choose from, but she insisted only the love shape despite many persuaded her to get the bright and shining type. The first pierce shocked her and she seem afraid to go for the 2nd shot. By showing Cait's earring to her does help. She decided to put on her courage with the heavy heart to go for the 2nd shot, but only wanted wifey to ca...

Happy Birthday To You, Happy Birthday To You, Happy Birthday To Claryne, Happy Birthday To You!!! Happy birthday Claryne! It's been 3 years with you in our lives.  You've pushed our buttons and showed us we can be SO angry beyond our own imagination.  This level was not 'unlocked' by your jiejie Cait yet.  More importantly though, you've showed us how much we can love such a pesky little monster.  Seeing your mischievous pretty little face we can never stay angry for long.  You are so independent, assertive and sensible for your age and we are indeed blessed to have you as our baby. Love, Wifey   Clar has grown up a lot in these few years, surpassing her size and thoughts despite her age. Others may think that she is in the wrong class because of that. One day, grandmother told hubby and wifey that Clar woke up in the middle of the night to change her own pants without waking her up. Grandmom was peeking at that point of time; Clar d...

Gong Hei Fatt Choy. Stay healthy and be cheerful! It was everyone 's birthday yesterday. Therefore a belated Happy Birthday to you! Wifey was preparing for a lou hei session at night. Coincidentally, the neighbor invited them to join them for a great and loud Lou Hei last night too! It is fun and happy to do it with a big group despite the table will be very messy, dirty and sticky. More importantly, it is all about fun and being loud. Ingredients given in the box consists of different meaning. As extracted from Wiki : When putting the yu sheng on the table offers New Year greetings. 恭喜发财 (Gong Xi Fa Cai) meaning “Congratulations for your wealth” 万事如意 (Wan Shi Ru Yi) meaning “May all your wishes be fulfilled” The fish is added, symbolising abundance and excess through the year. 年年有余　(Nian Nian You Yu) meaning “Abundance through the year”, as the word "fish" in Mandarin also sounds like "Abundance". The pomelo or lime is added to the fish...

It is never easy to understand kids mentality when they throw tantrum out of the blue. How can you as a parent deal in this kind of situation? It can be very frustrating when they do not tell you the reason. One of the worst solution  and yet not effective is to scold and beat the kids up. This, however, is not helping at all. The situation may worsen as adult tried to force an answer out from them. Hubby had tried all ways until he find that the best solution is to give them cold turkey treatment. By keeping quiet while the kids cry non stop will made them know that they are no longer in control. In the end, they will give up and willing to tell you the why they throw tantrum.  Talk to them after 10 min and keep the tone soft and stern. If it is time to say out the reason, they will. Always emphasize that they are not allow to do it again. This may take a long time for them to realise, but it is not a bad way at all. Kids can be very sensitive when adult accident...