We are The Ongies

The buying of bunk bed for the kids went wrong literally. Having Cait sleeping on top, while Clar at the bottom will do them good as they do not need to share with their grandma. Yes, they are sharing together on the same bed. Their grandma was saying that she do not have space to sleep because of them, the thought of bunk bed came into their mind. They shortlisted a few from the top range to the lowest. Remember, kids will not sleep on bunk bed for long, so there is no reason why you should spend huge money for it. They found a nice princess bunk bed at Novena, Sungei Kadut, at the price of $699! With all the mattress included, the cost is about 1K plus. Beautiful bunk bed for the kids from Novena While the kids were very happy about it, this does not last long at all. Instead of encouraging and giving more space for everyone, the grandma is paranoid about Cait may fall down from bunk bed, the good had turned to bad. In order to prevent that from happening, safety pr...

Nope. This is not a joke nor a prank. It can be funny... but... totally disappointing. Wifey ordered the pizza big box yesterday evening and due to rush hour, the delivery guy actually came with the box, but without a pizza! Hubby used to work as a pizza hut rider before, the common mistake will be wrong pizza given. Bear in mind, they have to deliver KFC as well, if you still remember. But without a pizza , it seem to be a new thing to him. The moment you hold the box by the bottom, you will feel the heat instantly because it is fresh out from the oven. During peak hours, the confusion scenario will be like this: Pizza made; put in oven Staff will prepare the sides (receipt shown by the side or clipped) Rider or other staff will double check first before taking it off. (it seem like either one of the staff forgotten this stage; the box might be close at that time) So that's how wifey received the sides without the main course. Yes, even the curry rice is not i...

Go Diaper-less It had been almost a month since Cait had went diaper-less and she did perform very well! There are a total of 3 incident that she had because of lost concentration while having fun, and too urgent to control. Other than that, she does know how to control herself very well. It is incredible due to her young age. There's no much worry as her mindset is quite mature. This is the best time that The Ongies can save some money on diapers. Cait will inform, or being constantly reminded whether she want to pass urine. It can be very tiring for her grandma and wifey, but at least she is trying her best. When she had been scolded for urinating on the floor, hubby can see that she lost confident on herself and kept on asking for diaper. Mom (Grandma) is a straight forward person, thus speaking direct did hurt Cait. Therefore, wifey tried her best to boast Cait confident towards diaper-less. Even the teachers mentioned that kids needed more confident on themselves; scol...

The feeling for Cait towards to school had changed. She told wifey that she does not want to attend school almost everyday. When being asked the reason why, she did not replied until wifey asked which teacher she does not like at all. According to Cait, she said that she did not like one of the teacher in the school because the teacher was either too strict or beat her before. As a parent, they need to investigate what is going on first, why and how the teacher beat; or was it just play. At times, when the teachers was playing with the kids, they will thought that they had been reprimanded or being punished. This had happened once with her favourite teacher before. Another thing, Cait had not been eating well in school. Even how hard her favourite teacher wanted to feed Cait, she will not give in at all. This is one of the concern that both hubby and wifey were worrying of. They also found out from Cait that she does not like to have other ingredient on her rice! Which she pref...

Every night Clar tuck in soundly and she is able to sleep on her own through the whole night, without feeling any fear. Recently, it seem that Clar is getting more and more insecure. She will make sure that any of her body part must be connected to wifey. E.g. her feet or palm must be  touching her mom, despite in the awkward position. 1-2 weeks back, she preferred to sleep facing down on wifey chest, so that she feel the security around her. She will start to cry if been put down on bed, even though it is just beside. Having cuddling is no use as well.  Just like last night, she will wake up every hour because she did not feel secure. One day, when hubby entered the room while talking to Clar, who is lying on the bed looking at the ceiling, she startled and trembled for a while until getting rest assured of it. The second time is when Clar was beside hubby; he was playing his iphone and Clar was on her own until wifey came in and talk to him, and she got startled ag...

It come to everyone attention that Cait had been trying to imitate the blinking to irritate mom, especially. Cait know the different version of eyes in English, Chinese and Teochew. Therefore, if mom was saying about it, Cait will start irritating the rest. The more you scold and punish her, all the more she will do it on purpose. The domestic helper do have blinking eye, but not as often. So, she had been told not to get too close to Cait and try to control it if she can. The pressure on her is quite heavy because mom is very concern about it. Wifey told the helper in a nice way that it isn't her fault totally because Cait always love to peep at people and love to imitate what she seen. So any small habit each one show, Cait will pick up really fast! Hubby was quite stressed when mom kept telling about Cait blinking eyes and he got fed up till he pinch softly on Cait  eye brow to remind her not to do it. But, Cait do it even frequently after she had been told off! Hubby al...

What happened when Cait had been scolded for dripping the ice cream all over the floor? Ans: Sit one corner quietly and continue eating. Need some evidence? There you go: No idea what she is so happy for Checking her out eating ice cream She is so obedient eating the ice cream quietly And she is still enjoying Oh? Well, she got scolded for dripping the ice cream all over, hence punishment is to sit there alone and continue eating it. She do not care... she just carry on enjoying. Mom was feeling a little  sayang  about Cait sitting there alone eating. But this is due to her punishment, thus mom have to be hard hearted. ( Just a while )

When Cait know she had poo poo on her diapers, she either tend to stand still quietly or grab a new piece of diaper to her grandma. Is Cait being too clever? Sometimes no one really know she poo poo until she kept making a lot of noise and irritate the others. So, they cannot scold her for making a mess while trying to take a diaper from the cupboard! The funniest things is that she know how to choose. 3 times in a row she gave to hubby with different brand of diapers from drypers to pampers! Oh dear, Cait know the high quality of diapers! As Cait pull wifey hair today, wifey follow suit to let her know how painful it is. Of course, a gentle one . For that, Cait felt angry and ignore wifey for a total of 30min. Wow, she is as petty as her daddy! Hubby had been taking care of Cait a lot until she is so attached to him. Mom was saying that nowadays Cait always made a lot of noise when she bathe her. Until it is hubby, Cait will definitely keep quiet and have a lot of fun instead...

It is a little slow but at least here they are now~ Introducing the 3 cuties: Xander, Cait and Jin Feng! Hubby was thinking that how will they react when they see this pic in 10 - 20 years later? Hilarious? Hubby grin. Airport T3 is sure a nice place for them to hang out. Carpark is by per entry and there are a lot of things to see and walk. Kids will definitely love it because they can see air planes as well, but not at their age now. Xander, Cait and Jin Feng The 3 young ones... It seem so interesting to look at this when they grow up. Ain't they suppose to look in front? Xander... Whats up! Cait feel sick today with flu, cough and fever. Luckily it subside now. Something cute about Cait recently. Knowing it is time for milk, she will head up to living room, grab the small mattress and lay it on floor before she sleep on it! She will wait for the milk patiently. This morning, mom was calling for Cait to bathe and she went to the room! Thought she is hiding or playing, by surprise...

It is quite funny to imagine this. Cait will kinda bring luck to people who carried her! Of course, she must be happy first! However, up till now both hubby and wifey did not strike anything at all! Does Cait love them? *hiak hiak* Wifey told hubby that Cait is kinda fa qiao to her Ye-ye. She smiled happily to shy moment and even sa jiao (act cute)! Depressing Moment Hubby is currently facing some depressing moment because he lost the entire photos in his drive! He is still trying to retrieve the photos from the HDD but facing more issue. So as for now, no photo will be uploaded to the blog. Please bear with hubby. He is having hard time and barely sleep because of such incident. Blogged with the Flock Browser

The whole Ong family is damn furious now! Cait cannot be taken care of because mom's coll do not want to change the work shift at all! Poor wifey had to take urgent leave, lock up the school and go home to take care of Cait. While mom had no choice but to return to work in the damn fumming mood! Even mom boss is damn angry over this matter. No one is extremely happy because someone do not want to accomodate! Sigh. Everyone had to think of the alternate plan to take care of Cait on Tuesday now. Blogged with the Flock Browser